Today you will have to accept that you cant control what others do and say, only how you react.
You wont be able to control what others say or do today, but you can still control your own reactions. You may have to accept today, that you have no power when it comes to the decisions of those around you, but you do have power over your own. Make sure you are focussing only on what you do and say, and leave the actions and words of others to their own consciences.