Changes that you cant control are occurring in your life, look at how you can adapt and change with them.
You will need to accept today that you cant control everything in your life. If you keep trying to steer things how you want them to go you will waste time and energy, some things just go their own way. If you can accept this you can use your energy to start adapting to these things instead. Change is inevitable, it's how you change with it that matters, so be flexible.