Use the wisdom you have today to recognise situations that are not working and to change them.
You have the wisdom you need, now all you need to do is put it in to action and accept that when something is not working the way you have been doing it, it's time to make a change. This can also refer to your previous acceptance of bad behaviours towards you, this is creating negative energy and it's time to recognise that this is not working for you and needs to change.