Do not be afraid to be brutally honest in your relationship today, then you can move forward openly.
You will need to be very honest in your relationship and in your personal life today, if you want this to be a success. You may have to lay down your cards and draw a line in the sand, and you should do so with commitment and confidence. It's important that you are upfront about things and you say what's on your mind. Only then can you enjoy open and honest connections.